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Illusions of materialistic world.

Sometimes I don't share others' quotes but instead offer insights from my own observations and experiences to help improve life, behavior, and the circles around us. In today's materialistic world, people have become so consumed by status and glamour that they've lost touch with their humanity, forgetting the importance of love, care, and respect. People have blinded themselves with the glitter of status. But what status? Are you a god? A prophet? Or merely a corrupt official or peon who misuses taxpayer money and then acts superior? Life is too short to take pride in ill-gotten gains or to be foolish. I refuse to accept the foolishness around me and will confront those who act arrogantly due to their positions.

Hedonic Treadmill: Understanding the Concept and its Impact on Human Happiness

The pursuit of happiness is ingrained in human nature. Every individual strives to achieve a state of contentment and joy in their life. However, despite our efforts to reach this elusive goal, the feeling of happiness seems to be fleeting. This phenomenon can be explained by the concept of hedonic treadmill, also known as hedonic adaptation. The term "hedonic treadmill" was coined by Brickman and Campbell in 1971, based on their research on happiness. It refers to the tendency of individuals to return to their baseline level of happiness despite experiencing positive or negative events in their lives. In simpler terms, it means that individuals get used to changes in their life, both positive and negative, and their overall level of happiness remains relatively constant. To understand this concept better, let us take an example. Imagine that you have been dreaming of a new car for a long time and finally, you are able to buy it. You feel ecstatic and thrilled with your new p...

Reflections on Oppression and Personal Choices

For me, every oppressed nation is far greater and more loved than the oppressor. Oppressors use their power to distract people with worldly gains, positions, and possessions. If that doesn't work, they use threats. But trust me and history: oppressors always vanish from the face of the earth, whether it’s Israel, the West, or their remnants around the world. Even cruel neighbors don't last forever. There are also people we call the stooges of the oppressors. When I observe them, I see only their lust for success and possessions. They can even abandon their loved ones to climb higher. But as I said earlier, such people will also fade into the annals of history. Then there are people who have no idea, nor the urge to find out, which path is right—whether to support the oppressed or to benefit themselves. They are influenced by the media and propaganda set up by the oppressors, found in educational institutions, neighborhoods, media, and school curriculums. Some people even get pa...

Beyond the Finish Line: The True Meaning of Winning

  Remember this Kenyan runner Abel Mutai who was just a few feet from the finish line, but became confused with the signage and stopped, thinking he had completed the race. A Spanish runner, Ivan Fernandez, was right behind him and, realizing what was happening, started shouting at the Kenyan to continue running. Mutai didn't know Spanish and didn't understand. Realizing what was taking place, Fernandez pushed Mutai to victory. A journalist asked Ivan, "Why did you do that?" Ivan replied, "My dream is that someday we can have a kind of community life where we push and help each other to win." The journalist insisted "But why did you let the Kenyan win?" Ivan replied, "I didn't let him win, he was going to win. The race was his." The journalist insisted, and again asked, "But you could have won!" Ivan looked at him and replied, "But what would be the merit of my victory? What would be the honor in that medal? What would ...

DHUL-QARNAYN'S SPACE TRAVEL

DHUL-QARNAYN'S SPACE TRAVEL In every age, there have been certain verses of the Quran that could not be fathomed. Surah al-Kahf is one of the most interesting Surahs of the Quran. This surah is very ambiguous, in the sense that every story in this Surah contains subtle and profound meanings. The story of Moses and Khidr (PBUH) is placed right before the story of Dhul-Qarnayn, and it recounts the patience of Moses who couldn’t make any sense of even perceived as evil- the actions of Khidr, and it tells his learning of the true nature of those actions when his patience was exhausted. The main message of that story is: Even if you don’t comprehend the insights of certain things that came from God, keep holding on tenaciously to God and His religion. In order to test whether we have internalized this message or not, God narrates a very ambiguous story, story of Dhul-Qarnayn right after the story of Moses and Khidr (PBUH). Since it is sprinkled with many weird phrases and expressions,...

The SAHIB Mentality

  The allure of power and the desire for control are deeply ingrained in human nature. In many societies, a certain segment of the population exhibits a tendency to adopt a "SAHIB" persona, characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, a disregard for others, and a lack of ethical grounding. This behavior often stems from a shallow understanding of the world, a preoccupation with material possessions, and a misguided pursuit of success. The underlying reasons for this phenomenon are complex and multifaceted. Often, individuals who exhibit SAHIB behavior have never ventured beyond the superficial realm of material gratification. They have not delved into the depths of philosophical thought, explored the intricacies of human relationships, or immersed themselves in the enriching experiences that cultivate empathy, compassion, and wisdom. Their narrow worldview blinds them to the true essence of human existence, reducing it to a mere accumulation of we...